Your blog is so fucking intense. Thanks for sharing stuff that gets so many of us off.
It’s great you were encouraging to the young guy starting to initiate things with his dad and had jerked off on his sock or something and felt guilty about it. He should never feel guilty about what he wants sexually and you were right to tell him to take it further. If you’re in a position where you don’t know whether to start things (whether growing up or as a dad), just remember that you might regret it for the rest of your life if you don’t give it a go.
I think the best way guys can start things is by pushing the envelope in terms of nudity around each other and then moving on to getting more and more open about masturbation and porn. Because regardless of whether your father or son is going to take the bait or not, you can be absolutely sure he’s incredibly horny and as obsessed with sex and getting off as you are. We’re all men. It’s what we do.
And every straight guy who’s not repressed gets a rise out of getting off with other guys. Even if it doesn’t turn into sex, your father or son is probably very curious about how the two of you measure up and how you get off. I think every “birds and the bees” talk should include a step by step demonstration of what a cock is made to do so young guys won’t have any hang ups and just enjoy the changes in their bodies and learning about the most important part of being male.
Thanks a lot! I’m glad people appreciate it!